In
Part 1 we concluded that based solely on genetics, the average Black woman should have "long hair," which we have defined as APL, if she wants it. However there are many of us who have been struggling with getting past SL. Why is that? If we're genetically capable of achieving our hair goals, why don't we?
Before I started my HHJ, I was STUCK at SL. My nape was a little past SL, but that's the longest my hair would ever get. I just figured long hair wasn't in my genes because no one else in my family had really long hair. I started my HHJ because the beau asked me one day, "Does your hair ever grow?" He wasn't trying to be mean...he was just curious. And that question is what really got me thinking. Why
doesn't my hair grow?
Clearly my hair was growing, which we learned from Part 1. My issue was that I wasn't retaining my length. Length retention involves keeping the ends of your hair from breaking at the same rate or a faster rate than your hair grows. If your hair grows at 1/2 inch per month, then you need to make sure your hair isn't breaking at that same rate (it would be great to keep it from breaking at all!)
Length retention is dependent on what we do to care for our hair.
Split Ends. Fairy Knots. Dry Hair. Weak Strands. Improper Moisture/Protein Balance. Unnecessary Roughness. Using the Wrong Products. All these issues negatively impact our ability to retain length. Every one of those is also preventable (or at least able to be kept in check). Now I honestly can't go in to every one of these issues in detail in this post (we'd be here all day), but throughout the next few weeks, we'll tackle each one.
I want all of you to feel empowered to achieve long, healthy hair if that's what you want to do.
Now don't get me wrong...you may not instantly reach your hair goal. It's taken me almost TWO YEARS to get from a little past SL to being an inch away from BSL (it should have taken 18 months tops!!!) Even though I'm retaining more length than I ever have, my hair still breaks. My hair was breaking up until a few weeks ago when I
finally had it trimmed and got rid of my split ends. But I know that was my fault: I wasn't moisturizing AND sealing with oil daily, I was very rough with my hair, and I wasn't doing my henna treatments regularly, which left my hair very weak and prone to breakage.
I'm dedicated to getting to BSL between now and my BFF's wedding in the beginning of March. That's 4 full months, but with the trim and layers I recently got, and looking at the pics I just took today, I think I'm about 2 inches away.



Based on my current growth/retention pattern, 2 inches in 4 months is a really big goal for me, but I think I can do it if I stick to
my new regimen. As I go through my new regimen, I'm going to address the reasons why I had issues with breakage, including the above issues I mentioned earlier (like fairy knots and unnecessary roughness) and hopefully that helps you all with retaining length too.
I'm really excited about this!!! I'm DEFINITELY a goal-oriented person, so I get super pumped when I have a target or deadline in sight lol. But I honestly think this newest Feisty House series will be fun!!! Aren't ya'll excited too??? =)